When I ride a younger or greener horse it is common for me to exaggerate my body or hand position at times to make my point more clear to the horse. If you think about it, most of us do similar exaggerations when talking to young children. Have you ever notice that when you talk to a two year old child you probably exaggerate your speech and your facial expressions?


Generally we do this to make it more clear and engaging for the child who doesn’t yet read the more subtle body language of adults. Eventually we hope that the child will grow to understand the subtle body language of adults but along the way we help A balanced rider creates a balanced horsethem out…but what moves them towards understanding the subtle cues?

Human children often begin learning these subtle communications by watching and listening to adults interact with adults. This is where the horse/child analogy shifts. The young horse I’m working begins to pick up on subtle cues because I return to a balanced and centered position over and over again.

I may exaggerate my hand movements or shift my body to encourage a youngster to make a change but without a focus on returning to a balanced position many riders find themselves constantly counterbalancing. Signs that things are out of balance include; rider needing to constantly keep their hand to the right or the left, the rider needing to constantly use a leg to ‘hold’ the horse straight, etc. To break the habit of constantly holding the horse you must return to a balanced position.

People often choose to ride off balance rather then return to a balanced position because on some level they know that when they do ‘let go’ the horse is very likely to make a mistake and need to be reminded again. In an attempt to avoid letting the horse make mistakes the person accidentally makes it their responsibility to keep things in line…but the cycle won’t end until the rider accepts that they must return to a balanced position, make another correction, and then return again to a balanced position.

Neither horse nor rider starts out perfectly balanced but with consistency both can learn how to work together as a well balanced team.